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Why Chasing Happiness is Making You Miserable

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행복이란 관념은 자연계에 존재하지 않는 것이여. 없는 걸 자꾸 노력해서 찾으려 하니 실망만 커지는 헛된 꿈이지. 더 중요한 건 인간은 행복하기 위해 태어난 것이 아니라는 진실을 잊지 말라고.
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Where is the old improvement pill? 😢
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helpfull❤👍
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lol what happened to the original improvement pill. 3 million subs
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I thought people understood that happiness is a state of being you are not fully aware of when you're in it but that wasn't true. People think I'll prepare for happiness, that's not possible.
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Rei Kiriyama
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You're awesome, man. You probably don't even realize the kind of impact you are making on English learners. I bet there are more people like me who came here just to improve their English and ended up learning how to improve their well-being. Respect
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I’d advocate for a pragmatist outlook where happiness isn’t the goal, but being on top of your game is a priority is the goal in order to not get bored or starving for happiness (because it is a fleeting emotion, than anything else). I’ve been reading books on habits, concepts like essentialism, pragmatism, existentialism, and psychological science, which have all taught me that happiness isn’t something that you find externally, it is something you cultivate through action, authenticity, having goals to stick to, or accepting that you can’t control everything, as well as finding meaning.
“The word happiness would lose its meaning if not balanced by sadness” -C.G. Jung
(2:16) Mark Manson mentioned this in his book (the subtle act of not giving a f****).
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What’s the name of this song?! I feel like it would be perfect to study to!!!😮
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i avoided the Vibrations of Manifestation book for WEEKS cause i assumed it was all fluff. but after seeing it pop up so many times i gave in and honestly? it hit. it explained stuff that no one ever breaks down — especially the deeper parts of energy that don’t get talked about. wild.
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So glad I stumbled upon this. Really well done!
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i swore the book Vibrations of Manifestation was overhyped until i started noticing how often ppl were bringing it up in comments and videos. got curious, bought the book, and yeah… had to eat my words. it wasn’t the usual “just think happy” stuff — it went way deeper than i expected. actually helped me shift things.
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Chasing happiness really does make it feel like it's always out of reach. Seeing people only show ‘happy’ with wealth attached definitely affects what we think we want. The journey and those ups and downs are what make things interesting, cuz if it was just constant winning, it’d get old fast (unless you’re One Punch Man, lol)
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@xter7856 From YouTube ↗ 21 Jul 2025 1
A therapist recommended me that exact book, The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris, and it's been the most beneficial thing for my mental health, better than any prescription. It's the mentality switch that I needed
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This really reminded me of the parable about the fish in the ocean, the one where the younger fish is searching for the ocean, not realizing he's already in it. When you mentioned the hedonic treadmill, it hit me at just the right time. Perfect video to wake up to and reflect on for a few minutes at the start of my day. Thank you.
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Peak in the thumbnail!
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Genuine contentment originates from within and, more importantly, from the ability to adjust to both positive and negative circumstances. The worst thing you can do is to rely on other people, especially those you care about, for your happiness.
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